Biggie Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 4 hours ago, Keyser_Soze said: Porn has changed a lot, perhaps you'd find it more interesting. Did you know there's a porn where girls stick eels in their butthole? How is that boring? How about the ones where the girl pours a milkshake into another girls anal cavity and then drinks the shake with a straw. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 4 hours ago, Keyser_Soze said: Porn has changed a lot, perhaps you'd find it more interesting. Did you know there's a porn where girls stick eels in their butthole? How is that boring? What the hell is wrong with you people? 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jason Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 8 minutes ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: What the hell is wrong with you people? Still less bad than prolapse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 21 minutes ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: What the hell is wrong with you people? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamer.tv Posted May 3, 2021 Author Share Posted May 3, 2021 This thread had significantly more legs than I expected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heydude93 Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Most porn feels too parasocial, performative, cringe, etc for it to do anything for me, but I do watch the real life people filming themselves stuff occasionally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 15 minutes ago, heydude93 said: Most porn feels too parasocial or cringe for it to do anything for me, but I do watch the real life people filming themselves stuff occasionally. Honestly until you said this I hadn’t even realized that’s what I’ve been doing as well. Sometimes you’ll even get ones where the woman is actually enjoying the sex and it’s a nice improvement. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 If a dude says he doesn’t jerk off or watch porn, he’s either lying or he’s splooging in his sleep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 1 minute ago, Joe said: If a dude says he doesn’t jerk off or watch porn, he’s either lying or he’s splooging in his sleep. I. DO. NOT. WATCH. PORN. Nor do I jerk off nor do I splooge in my sleep. I have absolutely no sexual desires whatsoever. None. Zip. Zero. Nada. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 1 minute ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: I. DO. NOT. WATCH. PORN. Nor do I jerk off nor do I splooge in my sleep. I have absolutely no sexual desires whatsoever. None. Zip. Zero. Nada. So you just literally never ejaculate? Fascinating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Just now, Joe said: So you just literally never ejaculate? Fascinating. I honestly cannot tell you the last time I ejaculated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 2 minutes ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: I honestly cannot tell you the last time I ejaculated. You also have zero sex drive though, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Just now, Joe said: You also have zero sex drive though, right? I have a negative sex drive. By that I mean, my sex drive is so low that it actually detracts from the sex drive of other people. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heydude93 Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 8 minutes ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: I. DO. NOT. WATCH. PORN. Nor do I jerk off nor do I splooge in my sleep. I have absolutely no sexual desires whatsoever. None. Zip. Zero. Nada. Ok Wade, ok, we believe you, not sure why you sound so defensive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Just now, heydude93 said: Ok Wade, ok, we believe you, not sure why you sound so defensive. I'm just sick and tired of having people scoff at the notion that as a guy I have zero interest in porn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 1 minute ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: I have a negative sex drive. By that I mean, my sex drive is so low that it actually detracts from the sex drive of other people. You are asexual. That's a thing and it's okay. I actually know someone who is asexual and happily married. He basically lets his wife fuck whoever she wants and they just happily coexist. They have a partnership and are both happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heydude93 Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 3 minutes ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: I'm just sick and tired of having people scoff at the notion that as a guy I have zero interest in porn. I know it frustrates you quite a bit, but you're not on court testimony, bud. Nobody is judging you or your boxes of porn, chiiiiill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 1 minute ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: I'm just sick and tired of having people scoff at the notion that as a guy I have zero interest in porn. Honestly it’s basically shaming you for your (lack of) sexuality. I think I’ve noticed that too that asexuality isn’t something the left has caught onto yet about how offensive people are. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 The one time I tried to give up jerking off in my early twenties, I was constantly waking up with moist pants lmao. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Just as an example, I once volunteered for an experiment in college where they measured "arousal state" brain wave activity by showing the subject various pictures. For me, the pictures of naked women did absolutely nothing, but you know what did cause the meter to spike for me? Scenes of war and carnage got me goin'! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Wow, way to make me feel like Jason, guys. Sorry Señor Steel! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heydude93 Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Asexuality is still pretty invisible, even more than being bi and it sucks. As someone who's both I get to poke fun at that concept Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 I’m horny af right now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 The way I see it, my "approach" represents the next natural step of human evolution. The desire to reproduce really is an instinctual remnant of our forebears and I simply don't see how our species can transcend to another physical/psychological/social level if we are essentially beholden to such desires. I'll let Dr. Wallace Breen more eloquently describe what I mean: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 2 minutes ago, heydude93 said: Asexuality is still pretty invisible, even more than being bi and it sucks. As someone who's both I get to poke fun at that concept It really is, isn’t it? I’ve been thinking about things more lately so I don’t even know how recently I still might have made a joke towards it. So not like calling anyone out but if you look at the kinds of jokes around it, it’s actually all the same stuff really. The “oh man a MAN has to cut so and so often i don’t believe any MAN who says otherwise.” Just prodding them that they aren’t a real man basically, same kinda thing we did to other people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 7 minutes ago, Biggie said: I’m horny af right now nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 1 minute ago, stepee said: It really is, isn’t it? I’ve been thinking about things more lately so I don’t even know how recently I still might have made a joke towards it. So not like calling anyone out but if you look at the kinds of jokes around it, it’s actually all the same stuff really. The “oh man a MAN has to cut so and so often i don’t believe any MAN who says otherwise.” Just prodding them that they aren’t a real man basically, same kinda thing we did to other people. I am FAR from a manly man nor do I have an intense sex drive and I literally was unable to not ejaculate the one period in my life I tried to. So I honestly assumed this to be the case for all males and did not even account for the possibility of asexuality tbh. Not great on my part, but a learning experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 3 minutes ago, Joe said: I am FAR from a manly man nor do I have an intense sex drive and I literally was unable to not ejaculate the one period in my life I tried to. So I honestly assumed this to be the case for all males and did not even account for the possibility of asexuality tbh. Not great on my part, but a learning experience. Yeah not actually calling you or anyone in particular out at all, it’s just so crazy to me how bad we are at realizing when we are making the same mistakes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Let me put it this way regarding porn: even if I did have a real sex drive I STILL wouldn't watch porn because my fundamental problem with it is that it's so goddamned boring and pointless. If I'm not the one engaging in the sexual activity, why the hell would I want to watch others doing it? I feel the same way about strip clubs: if I can't do anything with the dancers, then why should I even bother being there? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heydude93 Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 On 5/3/2021 at 8:28 PM, stepee said: It really is, isn’t it? I’ve been thinking about things more lately so I don’t even know how recently I still might have made a joke towards it. So not like calling anyone out but if you look at the kinds of jokes around it, it’s actually all the same stuff really. The “oh man a MAN has to cut so and so often i don’t believe any MAN who says otherwise.” Just prodding them that they aren’t a real man basically, same kinda thing we did to other people. Toxic masculinity is part of that. I'm still taken aback by how widespread it is, along with the "there are only two sexes or genders" stuff, anti-trans sentiments, the take that someone who's bi or pan needs to pick a lane or are fooling themselves etc. The internet, toxic bubble that it can be, is at least a place (especially twitter) where conversations about this seem to happen often compared to much of the offline sphere. I've talked to and/or looked up several classmates from highschool and it's shocking how many of them became millennial boomers. Most of it's the same ol' lack of perspective and curiosity to obtain it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Just now, Commissar SFLUFAN said: Let me put it this way regarding porn: even if I did have a real sex drive I STILL wouldn't watch porn because my fundamental problem with it is that it's so goddamned boring and pointless. If I'm not the one engaging in the sexual activity, why the hell would I want to watch others doing it? I feel the same way about strip clubs: if I can't do anything with the dancers, then why should I even bother being there? You need hentai and an onahole. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 1 minute ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: Let me put it this way regarding porn: even if I did have a real sex drive I STILL wouldn't watch porn because my fundamental problem with it is that it's so goddamned boring and pointless. If I'm not the one engaging in the sexual activity, why the hell would I want to watch others doing it? I feel the same way about strip clubs: if I can't do anything with the dancers, then why should I even bother being there? you might get some good dirt on a client that is a regular there if you are trying to take someone down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Best Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 I haven't jerked off in months or watched porn due to: A) Medications I'm on have significantly lowered my sex drive. I do dream of sex and I sometimes day dream about it. B) My religious beliefs have turned me away from porn and jerking off, too. Because to jerk I need porn. Porn doesn't fit well with where I am religiously. I don't cum in my sleep like I'm 15yrs old, either. I had a sexual dream the other night though that gave me a rock solid woody. I honestly don't miss it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 1 minute ago, stepee said: you might get some good dirt on a client that is a regular there if you are trying to take someone down. Why would I go through all of that trouble when I could just eliminate them and be done with it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Heck, I just realized that I feel about porn the identical way I feel about watching someone play a video game on Twitch Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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