CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 1 minute ago, The def star said: You pay for people to pretend they like you all the time. The person that serves you Starbucks, the cashier at the grocery store. When they tell you have a good day or how are you doing you think they always mean that? Strippers being sexy just happens to help them out more But seriously there is nothing wrong with stripping for money. It's a service people want and obviously pay for. I find other things more disgusting that being a stripper like politicians and lawyers I mean politicians and lawyers are actually necessary to society, so that's a dumb-ass stance to take. I don't care if the barista or the cashier is overly friendly, I just want my coffee and groceries. That's what I'm paying them for. If I could get my coffee and groceries for free, I wouldn't need them. My argument is that is seems pretty pathetic to pay a woman for that when you should be able to get it for free, in a consensual relationship. Sure, women who choose that line of work and can stomach it make great money taking advantage of guys who have to pay for it. I just think if you gotta pay for it, it's pretty sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The def star Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 2 minutes ago, Triage said: If my daughter(s) chose to be strippers or exotic dancers to pay through college to become some big profession, I would be okay with it (just not locally). But if they wanted to make living out of it, that I wouldn't agree with but not much I could do to change their minds. I think many exotic dancers do it for entertainment purposes and to make money. Oh they definitely do it for the money. There's nothing wrong with that but it's also a professional based on physical appearance and abilities. That fades as time goes by. I tell all the young girls that start off at my work that this a great place to make money but be sure to have a back up plan. Don't stay here too long because you do get burnt out and if you didn't go to school or study something you will be in a bad place when your time is up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 4 minutes ago, Triage said: If my daughter(s) chose to be strippers or exotic dancers to pay through college to become some big profession, I would be okay with it (just not locally). But if they wanted to make living out of it, that I wouldn't agree with but not much I could do to change their minds. I think many exotic dancers do it for entertainment purposes and to make money. And I pretend to like people in my line of work for paycheck. See my previous post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The def star Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 1 minute ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: I mean politicians and lawyers are actually necessary to society, so that's a dumb-ass stance to take. I don't care if the barista or the cashier is overly friendly, I just want my coffee and groceries. That's what I'm paying them for. If I could get my coffee and groceries for free, I wouldn't need them. My argument is that is seems pretty pathetic to pay a woman for that when you should be able to get it for free, in a consensual relationship. Sure, women who choose that line of work and can stomach it make great money taking advantage of guys who have to pay for it. I just think if you gotta pay for it, it's pretty sad. Not everyone can get a beautiful woman to take their time out of their day to talk to socially awkward people. A majority of the people that come to a strip club arent always the most greatest of people. Ask any guy here how easy it is to get a woman of their dreams attention. A strip club fills that void. In a lot of ways they are cheap therapist. They listen more than anything else about how people days go, how they are feeling and have to do it with a smile and pretend that they care. It's part of their job. I never said lawyers and politicians aren necessary but I could never do their jobs because of how sleazy you have to be sometimes. Strippers don't take advantage of guys any more than any other professions do. Plenty of car sales man, realtors or loan officers will take advantage of guys as well. I get that you personally wouldn't do it or don't like it but it's a still a job you can make an honest living out of and shouldn't be looked down any more than any other job. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Hey, I didn't say it should be illegal. I just find the idea of needing to pay for it pathetic. Good on those women if they can stomach it and make some money off guys who gotta pay for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris- Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 9 minutes ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: Eh, gonna have to disagree. Women can choose to go into the profession, if they want. I doubt it's something most parents' would want to see their daughters do, but if they're adults, they can make their own decisions. If my theoretical daughter wanted to be a stripper, I would be totally OK with that if it made her happy (and she was safe). I don't stigmatize sex work, and I don't harbor any negative feelings about sex. And again, you don't pay them to pretend to like you, you pay them because they are providing entertainment - watching attractive women dance naked is entertaining! 1 minute ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: My argument is that is seems pretty pathetic to pay a woman for that when you should be able to get it for free, in a consensual relationship. Sure, women who choose that line of work and can stomach it make great money taking advantage of guys who have to pay for it. I just think if you gotta pay for it, it's pretty sad. Once more, you do not pay strippers to pretend to like you. And for both myself as well as the majority of men who have gone or go to strip clubs, it is not something I 'have to' or 'gotta' do; in fact the only times I've been to strip clubs have been with female partners of mine. You seem to have some really negative feelings about sex, and honestly that's kind of a bummer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Most guys go to strip clubs to drink and look at pussy. But there always is that one guy who sits alone who is kinda of creepy paying out huge sums of money to one or two particular girls. That’s the guy @CastlevaniaNut18is talking about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Like I said, I disagree. I've made my stance pretty clear. I don't really have negative feelings about sex. To each their own and all, as long as you're not hurting anyone or forcing someone to do something against their will. I guess sex isn't the most important part of my life...but as I said, to each their own. You have your opinions, I have mine. Also, def star seems to make the argument that you do pay them to like you, just like you do(according to his view) in other lines of work. We can get back to shitty things coworkers do now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Strip clubs are pathetically boring/boringly pathetic places. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris- Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 1 minute ago, SFLUFAN said: Strip clubs are pathetically boring/boringly pathetic places. Exactly the type of opinion I would expect from a man who self-flagellates after every erection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Best Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Strip clubs were great in your 20s going with your buddies drinking. Had nothing to do with me being such a loser I couldn't get pussy for free, lol. The women I went to see entertained and were stunning! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Just now, Chris- said: Exactly the type of opinion I would expect from a man who self-flagellates after every erection. What do you mean "after"? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The def star Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 2 minutes ago, Biggie said: Most guys go to strip clubs to drink and look at pussy. But there always is that one guy who sits alone who is kinda of creepy paying out huge sums of money to one or two particular girls. That’s the guy @CastlevaniaNut18is talking about. What's wrong with the creepy guy paying out huge sums of money to the two girls. If he gets enjoyment out of those two girls company what's it matter? Some would say spending huge amounts of money on video games, electronics and virtual items is pathetic. But again who cares. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 29 minutes ago, The def star said: What's wrong with the creepy guy paying out huge sums of money to the two girls. If he gets enjoyment out of those two girls company what's it matter? Some would say spending huge amounts of money on video games, electronics and virtual items is pathetic. But again who cares. Nothing wrong with it. Lol. But some of those dudes think these girls actually like him. They like his money. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The def star Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 3 minutes ago, Biggie said: Nothing wrong with it. Lol. But some of those dudes think these girls actually like him. They like his money. He's at a strip club. If he thinks he's there to pick up his next wife he will surely be disappointed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dre801 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 You can't drink and look at pussy here since full nude clubs can't serve alcohol, lol. A stripper's job is to make every man who walks in there feel like he's Henry Cavill, at least long enough to get some money out of him. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 I want to go to a strip club (female dancers) especially for our pre wedding get together. For entertainment purposes and I think it's sexy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 And I want a lap dance @Emblazon make it happen (preferrebly a cute brunette) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The def star Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 9 minutes ago, Dre801 said: You can't drink and look at pussy here since full nude clubs can't serve alcohol, lol. A stripper's job is to make every man who walks in there feel like he's Henry Cavill, at least long enough to get some money out of him. This. This is what a strippers job is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Damn, I got more people talking than the actual topic did. I've always heard strip clubs around here habe ugly chicks. And tbh, the fake boobs and overly done makeup and blonde hair of your typical stripper does nothing for me. Easy pass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 46 minutes ago, Biggie said: Nothing wrong with it. Lol. But some of those dudes think these girls actually like him. They like his money. Happens at bars and restaurants too. That's on the guy for being a dumbass, not the industry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Best Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 24 minutes ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: And tbh, the fake boobs and overly done makeup and blonde hair of your typical stripper does nothing for me. Easy pass. Where I went, there wasn't any off that garbage you mentioned. You have a very narrow minded view on a subject you know nothing about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Just now, best3444 said: Where I went, there wasn't any off that garbage you mentioned. You have a very narrow minded view on a subject you know nothing about. Okay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Best Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 7 minutes ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: Okay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Good thing I don't care to learn firsthand. People got different tastes. That ain't one of mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Best Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 36 minutes ago, Triage said: And I want a lap dance @Emblazon make it happen (preferrebly a cute brunette) Lap dances can get interesting if you "connect" with the stripper. By "connecting" I don't mean handing over more money, either. 6 minutes ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: Good thing I don't care to learn firsthand. People got different tastes. That ain't one of mine. Have* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Thanks for correcting my facetious wording. While you were at it, you should have changed "ain't" to "isn't." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 10 minutes ago, best3444 said: Lap dances can get interesting if you "connect" with the stripper. By "connecting" I don't mean handing over more money, either. I can all but assure you that from her perspective, the "connection" involves handing over more money. If it doesn't, then she's not particularly good at her "job". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Best Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 17 minutes ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: Thanks for correcting my facetious wording. While you were at it, you should have changed "ain't" to "isn't." I'm only messin with ya. 9 minutes ago, SFLUFAN said: I can all but assure you that from her perspective, the "connection" involves handing over more money. If it doesn't, then she's not particularly good at her "job". Not true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 1 minute ago, best3444 said: I'm only messin with ya. Well, then get it all right, not just one! :P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 13 minutes ago, best3444 said: Not true. Alright - you're really gonna have to elaborate on this one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 1 hour ago, Triage said: And I want a lap dance @Emblazon make it happen (preferrebly a cute brunette) So you want to go to a strip club with your husband and get s lap dance while he watches? Will you marry me instead of @Emblazon 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 1 minute ago, SFLUFAN said: Alright - you're really gonna have to elaborate on this one. @best3444is one of those guys I was talking about. Confirmed. Just kidding bro. But yeah them ho’s only connect with your wallet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 6 hours ago, Biggie said: So you want to go to a strip club with your husband and get s lap dance while he watches? YES 6 hours ago, Biggie said: Will you marry me instead of @Emblazon NO 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 7 hours ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: Damn, I got more people talking than the actual topic did. I've always heard strip clubs around here habe ugly chicks. And tbh, the fake boobs and overly done makeup and blonde hair of your typical stripper does nothing for me. Easy pass. I think it's too funny as well how big of a topic this became I hope my first strip club experience isn't like that! I don't mind fake boobs as long at they are proportioned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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