What I mean is it seems like some of this is emotionally driven, as anti-vaxxers are rather than logically driven.
I can see your argument about destructive v non destructive but I don't know if that's how we categorize mental disorders - which is why I say it's weird to excuse one imbalance and not others because of societal expectations that are fluid.
Changing categories isn't going to lead to more acceptance - conservatives don't give a fuck about this and will continue to be assholes. All this is - is an emotional gesture that accomplished nothing long term for the trans community. The real change has to be societal acceptance and understanding - and that's going the opposite way.